Feelings are hard to fight. The harder you try to ignore the feeling, the harder you fall.
How can we know if loving a person is right or wrong?
Love is never wrong. Loving is never been a crime. Love comes in most unexpected and in a very mysterious way. People says love hurts. But does it? does it really does? Love doesn't hurt us, the people we love are the ones who can hurt us. Love is a feeling that brings us joy in our hearts, smiles to our face, and twinkle in our eyes.
Sometimes, when it comes to loving a person, that person may not be okay to you're friends and you're friends are not okay with the one you love. It easy to for us give an advice and reaction to this topic because we're not it the position. But if you will experience this, for sure you'll have a hard time thinking about and making a decision about this one.
They say that in love, there are no rules about what should or shouldn’t be done in each situation, you decide there and then what the most loving thing to do is. But in situation ethics, it is stated there that the ultimate norm of Christian decision is love: nothing else. So it means that Love is a law. It is a law said by God.
According to the act utilitarianism, you must weigh things in order to know what you must choose. First, you must know what is the worth of your friends are. Friends are always there whenever you feel happy or sad. They will be there even the one you love left you. While your loves ones bring you happiness and pleasure.But if you choose your boyfriend/girlfriend among your friends, and he/she left you, to whom will you go?
In Kant's ethics, it focuses on your obligations. We must think about our obligation to our friends, to the ones we loves, and of course to ourselves. We must avoid not to harm them in any cost. We have to do our duty to bring about what is good for the others(duty of beneficence) while not injuring others(duty of nonmaleficence) according to Ross's ethics.
If you do not try you'll never know what will happen. According to Situationism, "Only the end justify the means: nothing else." If that decision causes harm, it is wrong. If good comes of it, it is right. Sometimes you can’t claim to be right by following a rule knowing it will cause great harm not only to you but also to others. Only the outcome can justify your decision.
Do not be afraid to choose who brings you happiness. Whatever what decision you will make, don't regret it at the end because you know, at some point, it brings you happiness.
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